Another Friday… 30 March 2012

30 Mar

Hello World!

Today, I’m just going to pose a question here – why are people made to feel like they are doing something wrong if they don’t share feelings for a person? This guy at a party last night was clearly enamored by me, but I did not feel the same. I talked to him and danced with him, but made it clear that I was not at all romantically interested. At the end of the night, he kind of moped away and made a comment implying that I was being a bitch – for lack of a better word – for not wanting to pursue a relationship or even just a hook-up with him. Even my friends made comments such as “well, you could have given him a chance”. What was I supposed to do? Lead the guy on? I’m not like that! Also, the boy that I have a huge crush on and actually want to pursue a relationship with was there. Why would I waste my time with a boy that I am not attracted to when I could be trying to find out if my crush wants to date me or something. The fact of the matter is, people can’t really help who they happen to have – or not have – feelings for and I just hate that I am sitting here feeling so guilty when I didn’t particularly do anything wrong. When it comes to relationships, I never want to become involved with a man just because he wants to be with me. I want to be in a relationship where there is a mutual attraction. Heck, it may not even be the same level of attraction…but I think it’s silly to abandon the relationship that you are trying to pursue just because someone that you aren’t even attracted to throws themselves at you…

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